I think that sometimes I spend too much time on helping others. Not that I mind helping, I just seem to sometimes...forget that I have stuff to do myself. I'm not suffering from the "disease to please", I just have this...like..I feel that I have to pitch in if people need help and I know I can help them. And it's both in practical matters as well as being a shoulder to lean on. I don't mind it. I just wish I were better at saying no, or at least doing it when I have taken care of myself first.

I'm just too nice. ;-)

My dad's the same way, I think - atleast when it comes to practical things... My mum is better at saying no, or not offering her help if she knows that she's got her own stuff to take care of.

Monday, March 08, 2004 posted by Wardi @ 1:15 PM